Good in bed, but bad to him. And that's all some women have to offer.
People may think that since the conception of this blog, I'm like a love guru or some shit like that. Not quite. I've loved. I've hated. I'm no guru. But what I do know is that too many of today's women are closed hearted and cold. And they can honestly say, they have never made love.
Before I continue, let's reassure that yall know what I mean when I say make love. When making love, it takes two. There is an emotional connection happening beyond what's occuring in the physical. Guards down. Hearts open.
With that said, keep in mind that most women may very well be making love to a man, but questioning if he's making love back. Most times, he isn't. And this is not to diss my male readers. I'm sure when many of you are with your women, hittin it, love (among other things) are on your mind. The connection is there. However, so many women have never felt a connection beyond his erection and his condom...if a condom is even involved. But a stronger connection needs to be made or feelings can get played. From this comes trust issues, love issues, a misunderstanding of what love is and how to make it. Issues sometimes beyond repair.
Fucking...yes...that is what most sexual relationships result to. And while yes, some of these relationships bring about a good time, they lack love. And for a woman, the pattern of sex with no love becomes a normal. And the opening of her legs becomes the closing of her heart. And while she can endure someone beating it up, her heart beats for more. But she's never made love because she's never felt love. She can't committ because she's never trusted. Not even herself.
Women are the core of our universe. And I can care less how many of my male readers just got pissed at that line, because it's true. We are the reproducers and we need to know how to love. It's an ill feeling I get when I think of women that cannot love and make love. We are love and we are the teachers of love. We must learn to love beyond any bullshit issues. Our bodies are needed for more than being good in bed. In the literal sense, I mean that.
Love,
Vee
