Let's talk about sex...shall we? More specifically, let's discuss casual sex in today's world. Let's discuss hittin and quittin, fuck buddies and bust downs. Excuse my French and I can't say that I'm in France. However, I am in a world where bodies, hearts and souls are handled without care. I'm in a world where we openly admit to sharing our men with other women and in a world where SEX no longer equals LOVE.
Youngsters, log off of From Vee to You. This is adult content only.
Ok, so as adults we won't always mess around with strings attached. And I'm not pointing fingers because I've had my share of stringless situations...and we'll just call them situations. Sometimes, we just want the private parts and that partner to stay private. We want the booty, not the drama. The draws, not the laws.
We want casual sex and for her not to call the next day. Shit, don't even text the next day. We want to be able to call him when our baby daddy act up, put the baby to sleep and "do us." And when it's all said and done, we want to just have the memories and feelings of what that moment brought. And have the ability and freedom to press rewind or repeat at our own leisure. Because after all, it's just sex. It's just pussy. It's just dick. Just a lil head. Right?
Hell naw! Wrong! And we can convince ourselves this if it helps us sleep at night. We can convince our homies and our bffs that casual sex trumps monogamous love anyday. But deep down, outside the bed and unwrapped from the sheets, we all want love from this shit. And a lot of us engage in casual sex relationships, QUICKIES, and straight up hoe activities based on lack of self love.
We've all been there. Don't front. You may have gotten hit from the back and all you've seen after was his back. You do wanna be loved. That's what sex is all about. Or at least it should be. These music videos, song lyrics and famous personas are just entertainment. At the end of the day, those fools want that down ass woman too...not the chick he hits while in tour in her city. At the end of the day, she wants a man to provide and love...beyond the bedroom. And love her deeper than any orgasm.
So look, without a judgmental tone but more of an inspiring one, let's learn what sex really means. The feeling of sex and is not the foundation of sex. The love is. Love you and demand that your body is loved.
Love,
Vee
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