I haven't really listened to 50 cent since he dissed Vivica like that. Thought that was kind of bogus. But, hell, when I saw her in one of his videos after that, I figured if she was cool with it, I'd stop taking it so personal. But one of 50s latest tracks, "Trick", really caught my attention, it's his latest collabo with Too Short and E-40. While the lyrics are not the most respectful to our women, I have to say, he speaking some real on that track.
His song discusses what I will discuss in today's love letter to you...promiscuous, cheating, viscous, lying women...yeah ladies, I'm putting us on out there...because some of us just dead wrong for how we treat the few good men that are willing to be with us. And as we mistreat them, we hide behind no good men and the stereotypes that society has created for our benefit. The stereotype that says this: All MEN are DOGS.
There are some woman always hollering about not being able to find a good man. Some of us go outside our race, completely lower our standards and settle, and some just hop around men to men while others just choose a woman instead. And whatever floats your boat and butters your toast, cool with Vee, who am I to judge? But one thing I feel compelled to speak on is how women will do their dirt, sweep it under the carpet, vacuum the shit up and dump that bad boy somewhere safe...sometimes in the ears of our best friends and sometimes after sex while laying in another man's bed. Point blank, some of us out here choosing.
Ok women, some of yall like "What the hell is Vee doing right now!? She know damn well we been getting away with our sneaky games for years. Why she bringing it up now?"
Well this is why...Our games have been the root of divorces, visitation rights, child support, murders...hell, wars. We know we got power...and we don't even have to speak on where that specific power lies. Jay Z and R Kelly already told you that much.
Yet and still, we forget...and I say WE for a reason (I'll never point fingers without pointing mine at myself...and I haven't always been the perfect angel as I am now :) ...) have let these games destroy our lives, tilt society. Yes, it's that major ladies. Some of these men who genuinely love us, protect and provide for us, sacrifice and change for us, we play like suckas.
We talk to them all night until their sleepy, and open our doors for the next. We make them dinner, give them our "loving", and put them to sleep...waiting for snores before we text the next. We wrong, and we know it. Some of us use our babies as bait to keep him coming back for more, denying him his rights as daddy. Some of us even befriend the momma (and yall know how a good man is with his momma, be her alive or dead) just to strategically handle our sneaky business. And we all do these things, with the one sheer idea in our mind...he might just be doing the exact same thing to us.
And I'm not tricking on you ladies, if you doing it and you getting away with it, your lies will trick on themselves. So do you. However, we need to realize that we are the ones who are responsible for reproduction, growth in our children lives; society depends on us for a lot. We are the ones put here to nurture, show our young girls and boys how to be well-rounded people, how to LOVE. And how can we do that while we're breaking up other women's homes? How can we do that while we're faking to love him, all while we're busy lusting the next?
Women and men: I'm sure we've all heard the saying that behind every good man, there's a good woman. Well, if your complaints of him are always centered around how "no good" your man is, ask yourself if there is someone behind him reflecting that same trait. The possibility is very likely.
Love,
Vee
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