Our young folks today barely understand the beauty of sex, because all they know is its beastly effects.
They know more about the pain that it leaves and less about the love that manifests from it. Too much about the disappearing daddies and malfunctioning mommas...and their idea of sex has been imprinted with negative behaviors that alters society. And sooner or later, our young people equate casual sex with love. And love...or what they believe is love... won't let them wait.
It's not their fault. Some are just doing what Wacka Flocka says in his rap song...beating it up with no cause and understanding of what the hell their doing. But if I could tell those young men and women one thing I'd urge them to put their precious private parts away...because their bodies are temples and should be treated accordingly.
Instead, they do what society dictates to them. Have sex...it makes you a grown up. Give him some girl, he'll stay with you. Then they brag the next day on how great their first time was... when they know damn well it was the most painful experience they've ever lived. And we teach our young boys that sex is what makes them men. No wonder some of them are 25 year old toddlers.
I can't remember the last time we've heard a song about waiting a while; a lesson Janet asked of us decades ago. And I can't help but wonder if parents and school officials are even pushing absitinence anymore...is it no longer cool to wait for marriage? Or at least for some damn body who is worth it?
But what's up with our young people is that we haven't displayed a fragile care for sex; and it is no longer handled with care. We throw it around, like we do our bodies. And that's not love.
Love,
Vee
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